
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	
	>
<channel>
	<title>
	Comments on: Say Hello to Flake (Gently, Please)	</title>
	<atom:link href="https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=say-hello-to-flake-gently-please</link>
	<description>The Kink Confectioner&#039;s Corner</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 19:06:09 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>
	hourly	</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>
	1	</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4</generator>
	<item>
		<title>
		By: Chocolate Kitsune		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-828</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chocolate Kitsune]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2025 09:49:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-828</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-813&quot;&gt;Malachyte&lt;/a&gt;.

Since giving a face to her voice, I&#039;ve found myself saying things like &quot;Flake needs to..&quot; and &quot;Flake&#039;s worried..&quot; and immediately people who know her, know where I&#039;m coming from.

Whether it&#039;s an unnecessary apology that they know is borne out of fear, or expressing an anxiety that is likely unfounded, or checking in with others cause I&#039;m worried about them - Flake isn&#039;t someone who would lash out in normal circumstances, so folks tend to take what she says from a more charitable angle even if I may misspeak. It&#039;s basically the equivalent of &quot;I need to talk about something, and I&#039;m scared to.&quot; This has naturally encouraged me to be kinder to myself when I find myself in such a place, too.

Asking about &quot;Catch a Bubble&quot; made me giggle a little, cause I&#039;ve had a few people get curious whenever I mention it. If I remember correctly, Garnet picked it up from a preschool teacher who makes short form videos about her job. That&#039;s one of the things she says to her students to get them to stop for a moment and try to calm down - being slow and deliberate as to literally catch a bubble. I&#039;ve always interpreted it as &quot;catch your breath&quot; in a similar way to the underwater levels in the classic Sonic games, though. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f605.png" alt="😅" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-813">Malachyte</a>.</p>
<p>Since giving a face to her voice, I&#8217;ve found myself saying things like &#8220;Flake needs to..&#8221; and &#8220;Flake&#8217;s worried..&#8221; and immediately people who know her, know where I&#8217;m coming from.</p>
<p>Whether it&#8217;s an unnecessary apology that they know is borne out of fear, or expressing an anxiety that is likely unfounded, or checking in with others cause I&#8217;m worried about them &#8211; Flake isn&#8217;t someone who would lash out in normal circumstances, so folks tend to take what she says from a more charitable angle even if I may misspeak. It&#8217;s basically the equivalent of &#8220;I need to talk about something, and I&#8217;m scared to.&#8221; This has naturally encouraged me to be kinder to myself when I find myself in such a place, too.</p>
<p>Asking about &#8220;Catch a Bubble&#8221; made me giggle a little, cause I&#8217;ve had a few people get curious whenever I mention it. If I remember correctly, Garnet picked it up from a preschool teacher who makes short form videos about her job. That&#8217;s one of the things she says to her students to get them to stop for a moment and try to calm down &#8211; being slow and deliberate as to literally catch a bubble. I&#8217;ve always interpreted it as &#8220;catch your breath&#8221; in a similar way to the underwater levels in the classic Sonic games, though. 😅</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: Malachyte		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-813</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Malachyte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2025 12:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-813</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Oooh, I like this design! And I&#039;m a recently growing fan of making space for feeling out fear. Been learning a lot in therapy that (surprise) tamping fear down and trying to get rid of it as soon as you feel it isn&#039;t actually that helpful! Exactly as you put it up here, the anxiousness and fear comes from our minds trying to keep us safe, just... not in a way that ends up practical, or goes farther than is helpful. I&#039;ve been trying to meet my feelings with kindness and an open mind, and it&#039;s been awesome! I hope you find lots of success with Flake in your journey with that.

By the way, what does &quot;Catch a Bubble&quot; mean here?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oooh, I like this design! And I&#8217;m a recently growing fan of making space for feeling out fear. Been learning a lot in therapy that (surprise) tamping fear down and trying to get rid of it as soon as you feel it isn&#8217;t actually that helpful! Exactly as you put it up here, the anxiousness and fear comes from our minds trying to keep us safe, just&#8230; not in a way that ends up practical, or goes farther than is helpful. I&#8217;ve been trying to meet my feelings with kindness and an open mind, and it&#8217;s been awesome! I hope you find lots of success with Flake in your journey with that.</p>
<p>By the way, what does &#8220;Catch a Bubble&#8221; mean here?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: Chocolate Kitsune		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-812</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chocolate Kitsune]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2025 09:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-812</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-808&quot;&gt;Derpmaus&lt;/a&gt;.

Okay I see you meant &quot;collar&quot; now. x3 Those are flashing lights on Flake&#039;s shock collar.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-808">Derpmaus</a>.</p>
<p>Okay I see you meant &#8220;collar&#8221; now. x3 Those are flashing lights on Flake&#8217;s shock collar.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: TheLostFlowers		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-811</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[TheLostFlowers]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 23:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-811</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I feel a deep-seated need to give her a hug and help ease things for her.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel a deep-seated need to give her a hug and help ease things for her.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: Chocolate Kitsune		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-810</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chocolate Kitsune]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 22:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-810</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-808&quot;&gt;Derpmaus&lt;/a&gt;.

Characters? Where?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-808">Derpmaus</a>.</p>
<p>Characters? Where?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: PlushWah		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-809</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[PlushWah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 18:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-809</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[-gentlest of cuddles-]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-gentlest of cuddles-</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: Derpmaus		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-808</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Derpmaus]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 17:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-808</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Are the characters on the color in the first frame meant to be legible? Was trying a translator on them and wasn&#039;t sure if meant to be something specific or squiggles?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are the characters on the color in the first frame meant to be legible? Was trying a translator on them and wasn&#8217;t sure if meant to be something specific or squiggles?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>
		By: Dal		</title>
		<link>https://support.the.choco.one/2025/06/08/say-hello-to-flake-gently-please/#comment-807</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 17:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://support.the.choco.one/?p=8413#comment-807</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[All my love to all of you, I empathise with Flake a lot <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f49c.png" alt="💜" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All my love to all of you, I empathise with Flake a lot 💜</p>
]]></content:encoded>
		
			</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
